Rebecca De Mornay speaks about intense affair with Tom Cruise
Yet, while her co-star Tom Cruise skyrocketed to global superstardom, De Mornay’s path took a different turn — one that few could have predicted.
Not long ago, I came across a black-and-white photo of a beautiful young woman standing beside Tom Cruise. Her look was quintessentially 1980s, and her gaze instantly captivated me. At first, I thought it might be Heather Locklear, but I quickly realized it wasn’t her. Instead, I soon learned her name: Rebecca De Mornay.
Odd upbringing
Rebecca De Mornay was born in 1959 in Santa Rosa, California. Her upbringing has often been described as unconventional — some might even say chaotic.
Her parents were Wally George, a disc jockey who later became a right-wing TV personality, and Julie George, who dreamed of becoming an actress.
When Rebecca was just two years old, her parents divorced. Her mother remarried a scientist, but tragically, he passed away when Rebecca was only five.
After this loss, her mother decided to take Rebecca and her brother on a journey across Europe. They traveled around in a Volkswagen van, eventually settling in a small town in Austria, where Rebecca began school. Living like a nomad forced Rebecca to grow up quickly, and she was often seen as much older than her years.
She was courageous and mature, making her own decisions early on. By the age of 18, she returned to the U.S. to pursue a career. Initially, Rebecca had a passion for singing and aspired to make it as a folk singer or composer.
Acting came to her mind later on.
”I started thinking about acting one day when I was walking down Santa Monica Boulevard her in Las Vegas,” she said in 1994.
”The only thing I could relate to was that my mother had wanted to be an actress when she was very young. She hadn’t really done anything: she had just been a mother. She had told me as an early teenager: ’I think you could be very gifted as an actress’. Which sort of poisoned it for me, because anything your mother says, you don’t want to do”.
Breakthrough
In 1980, De Mornay moved to Los Angeles and enrolled at the famous Lee Strasberg Institute to study acting.
De Mornay made her film debut with a small role in Francis Ford Coppola’s 1981 film One from the Heart, but it was her breakthrough role in Risky Business just two years later that truly put her on the map.
In the 1983 blockbuster, Rebecca plays the role of a seductive call girl (Lana) who teaches a young Tom Cruise a few life lessons. With her blonde bangs, porcelain-doll features, and piercing blue eyes, she was the perfect fit for the role. She had a mystique in the movie and was something of a mystery woman.
While most remember the 1983 comedy as Cruise’s launchpad to superstardom, it also propelled the once-unknown 24-year-old De Mornay into a solid career.
”I had only been auditioning for six months – which is nothing – when I got the female lead in a feature film that went on to become a monster hit,” De Mornay told The Los Angeles Times in 1993.
”I got a nine-year ride on one film”.
Although there was pressure to cast a famous actress, director Paul Brickman was determined to have De Mornay. After auditioning 400 women in the United States and Europe, he stood by his choice and ensured she got the role.
One of the reasons De Mornay was able to portray the role so convincingly, despite her relatively limited experience, was that she identified with the character Lana. Their life stories were not entirely dissimilar.
”[I’ve] gone through a lot in my life in terms of upheaval and family stuff, and suddenly there was a part that just fit me like a glove, that I knew.”
According to De Mornay and many other’s, Lana was the ”soul of the movie.”
“I wanted to maintain her dignity, regardless if she’s having sex for money. She maintained some source of integrity and soul,” she said.
Intense affair with Tom Cruise
De Mornay knew right away that Risky Business was destined to be a hit, but she had no idea it would also spark a new romance. During the shoot, she and Tom Cruise not only connected professionally but also fell for each other. Their on-screen chemistry was undeniable, and the sparks continued to fly off-camera.
“It’s no secret that Tom engaged in an intense affair during the shooting with De Mornay,” Curtis Armstrong, who costarred in Risky Business alongside Tom and Rebecca, recalled in his 2017 memoir.
De Mornay was dating actor Harry Dean Stanton at the time, whom she had met in the early 1980s while working on One from the Heart. Their romance, though, quickly fizzled once she and Cruise began to fall for each other.
De Mornay initially joked that she found Cruise ”annoying” when they first met, but he quickly won her over. Before long, their connection blossomed into a romance that lasted two and a half years.
During this time, De Mornay was on cloud nine. She was one of the hottest names in Hollywood and deeply in love. Reflecting on their swift rise to fame, De Mornay described the experience as both thrilling and overwhelming.
However, while Cruise skyrocketed to become one of the most successful actors in film history, De Mornay’s momentum faded, and the industry’s interest in her waned.
“I was a more complicated, mysterious presence, innately than Tom,” she told The Wrap in 2023. “His presence is more like, I would say, a major chord, [thinking] in music terms, and I’m more of a minor chord…America really, really loves the major chords.”
However, her career didn’t completely fizzle out. De Mornay continued to work throughout the 1980s, achieving varying levels of success. Her biggest hit after Risky Business came in 1992 with The Hand That Rocks the Cradle.
The psychological thriller was a major commercial success, and De Mornay’s portrayal of a vengeful widow who infiltrates the life of one of her late husband’s accusers left a lasting impression.
”I thought when I was making it that everyone would hate me. But when the film came out, everyone loved my character,” she told LA Times.
Throughout her career, De Mornay averaged about one film per year. Despite her talent, she didn’t always land the major roles that some might have expected, partly because she never pursued fame aggressively.
”It’s not like I got more talented. In retrospect, I had a good education in Hollywood ups and downs very quickly. I was in a big hit and then several lows. But it all helped me in my quest to detach,” she says.
Rebecca De Mornay husband
When she met actor-turned-sportscaster Patrick O’Neal in 1995, she chose to focus more on her family. Together, they raised two daughters: Sophia, born on November 16, 1997, and Veronica, born on March 31, 2001.
Balancing motherhood with a Hollywood career is far from easy, and De Mornay experienced this firsthand. While filming Identity, she brought her daughter Sophia to the set. She also had to turn down roles that required too much travel or time away from her family. She wasn’t willing to relocate for new job opportunities; her top priority was providing her children with a stable and secure upbringing.
“I’m not quite sure how some of these very famous actresses with children, how they do it. Maybe they’re good at multitasking? I’m not,” she told The Wrap.
De Mornay and O’Neal parted ways in 2002.
Age discrimination in Hollywood might also explain why De Mornay struggled to compete with younger actresses. This issue has affected not just De Mornay but many of her peers in the industry. De Mornay’s friend, Carol Kane, once told her that “when I turned 40 it was like I sent an invisible telegram to Hollywood that said, ‘Don’t hire me.’”
A significant part of the problem is the scarcity of substantial roles for women as they age, which has undoubtedly impacted De Mornay’s career as well. At the same time, she remains one of the fortunate few who have been able to sustain a career in acting.
“It’s always been important to me to choose roles where there [is] some model of strength to women, regardless of what they do or how they do it,” she said.
Rebecca De Mornay daughters
As of today, Rebecca De Mornay continues to work in the entertainment industry, though her roles have become more selective over the years.
She has transitioned from the leading roles of her earlier career to supporting roles in both film and television. De Mornay has appeared in various projects, including TV series like Lucifer and Jessica Jones, where she received praise for her performances.
In addition to her acting work, De Mornay remains focused on her personal life. She has kept a relatively low profile, prioritizing her family and private life. Despite the ups and downs of her career, she is regarded fondly in Hollywood and continues to be respected for her talent and contributions to the industry.
De Mornay’s daughters, Sophia and Veronica, have followed in her footsteps by dipping their toes in the entertainment industry. Both have shown an interest in acting, taking inspiration from their mother’s successful career.
In 2024, the 26-year-old Sophia De Mornay-O’Neal made her big-screen debut in Peter Five Eight. While many enjoyed seeing Sophia follow in her mother’s footsteps, fans are particularly excited about the striking resemblance between them and Sophia’s stunning modeling photos.
Latest movie
Rebecca De Mornay is currently in the spotlight with her role in the film Saint Clare, an Italian thriller based on Don Roff’s novel Clare at Sixteen. The film, which also draws some inspiration from Joan of Arc, premiered at the 2024 Taormina Film Festival.
When the project was first mentioned to De Mornay, the experienced actress was immediately intrigued and eager to be involved.
“I have two daughters, who are 23 and 26, and I really enjoyed being part of a film giving the females in the audience, young girls particularly, the message that you don’t have to fucking take it. You are strong enough to fight back at these guys. If an 18-year-old girl can lead an army, you can fucking fight off an aggressor. You can win as a woman against the patriarchy,” the 64-year-old actress told Variety.
Rebecca De Mornay today
De Mornay has always been known for her timeless beauty and striking presence.
During her breakthrough in the 1980s, she captivated audiences with her fresh-faced, all-American look, characterized by her bright blue eyes and flowing blonde hair. As she transitioned into the 1990s, her style evolved, adopting a more polished and sophisticated appearance.
Today, De Mornay has maintained her graceful and refined image. Even as she has aged, she has embraced a natural and effortless beauty, allowing her to retain the elegance that has been her signature throughout her career.
Looking at the latest red carpet photos from the Taormina Film Festival, it’s clear that Rebecca De Mornay is more stunning than ever! It’s incredibly exciting to see her blazing her own trail and continuing to create films she’s passionate about. Her enduring beauty and commitment to her craft are truly inspiring!
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It Appeared As Though This House Was About To Collapse!
The house looked like this before anyone was interested in buying it. It was fortunate that someone recognized its potential and value in recapturing architectural history.
The house now looks like this.
With inviting shades of olive green, terracotta red, and gold, everything was restored and enhanced.
Five different kinds of wood make up the floors. These stained glass windows are the reason that there are rays of light and color.
Each of the five bedrooms on the upper floor has its own design and special charm.
Even a beautiful sunroom could be used as a study space.
In addition, there is a small hideaway in the finished loft that is a great spot for chatting, playing, and creating in the rain.
High school student wins science fair by demonstrating how a long-forgotten Native American recipe can kill cancer cells in-vitro
Destany “Sky” Pete, a high school student, won the 2017 Elko County Science Fair in Nevada after she re-discovered that a long-used traditional dish containing a specific plant known as chokecherry possesses cancer-killing properties.
After having a conversation with one of the elders of her tribe, Pete, a Native American and a member of the Shoshone and Paiute Tribes from the Duck Valley Indian Reservation in Idaho and Nevada, came to the conclusion that the tribe’s health issues were a result of the reduced consumption of traditional foods, specifically toishabui or chokecherry pudding.
The bright student researched the medical properties of the chokecherry, a plant still planted and harvested by the members of her community.
Once she showed interest in researching the medical properties of the plant, Pete got in touch with Dr. Ken Cornell, a biochemistry professor at Boise State University specializing in cancer cell research, through one of her high school teachers.
They tested four types of chokecherry specimens on uterine sarcoma cancer cells and allowed a 24-hour incubation period. The specimens included: Traditional chokecherry pudding with crushed seeds, chokecherry pudding without seeds, chokecherry juice alone, and chokecherry extract.
The results showed that only the traditionally prepared pudding with crushed seeds exhibited cancer-inhibiting properties.
“The traditional (Shoshone and Paiute) method of preparing chokecherry pudding includes the seed of the chokecherry, crushed up,” said Pete. “Nowadays, some people just kind of juice the berry and take out the seed completely. But maybe the seed has medicine that can help us to stay well.”
The study was conducted in-vitro, or in test tubes, meaning its implications are limited. However, it is considered a breakthrough in the fight against cancer.
Speaking of her accomplishment, Pete said she’s proud to be representing her Native American heritage, adding that science and culture often go hand by hand.
Chokeberries, also known as arena berries, are small red berries native to North America that have anti-inflammatory properties. These berries are rich in essential vitamins and minerals, including vitamin K.
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Elvis and Ursula Andress: The Acapulco love triangle you missed
Elvis Presley’s iconic hip thrusts were legendary, but Ursula Andress, fresh from Dr. No, took things to another level in Fun in Acapulco. The chemistry between them was undeniable, but what happened behind the scenes? The answer might surprise you…
Top-grossing movie musical of 1963
Elvis Presley made everything fun, and Fun in Acapulco is no exception. With his smooth moves and jaw-dropping looks, he was basically a living, breathing work of art—like a marble statue that could sing. Add in Ursula Andress, the iconic Bond girl, and you’ve got a combo of talent and chemistry that’s impossible to ignore.
Sure, it’s your typical beachy musical, but Elvis makes it shine with his incredible voice and those catchy tunes, like “Bossa Nova Baby,” which hit Number 8 on the Billboard Hot 100. It was the top-grossing movie musical of 1963, and, believe it or not, it came out right after the heartbreaking news of JFK’s assassination.
While the script might’ve been a little basic, Elvis’ charm and that unforgettable voice made it a must-see. Watching this iconic film today, you can’t help but see it in a whole new light. There are plenty of forgotten facts and fun bloopers that most moviegoers never even noticed back in the day. But let’s be real—talking about Fun in Acapulco without mentioning the undeniable chemistry between the leads would be impossible. So, let’s start there…
Ursula Andress had her eyes set on Elvis
In 1963, Ursula Andress was the hottest woman on the planet, fresh off her breakout role in Dr. No. In Fun in Acapulco, Ursula Andress played Marguerita Dauphin, the hotel social director who’s interested in Elvis’ character, Mike.
While she initially kept her distance from Elvis Presley, thanks to some unflattering tabloid stories, their chemistry grew as filming went on. Later, Ursula admitted how surprised and overwhelmed she felt when she first met The King, a moment that left her in awe of Elvis Presley’s larger-than-life presence.
”The only way I knew him was from TV, this new idol, this hip-swinging lover with a guitar. The first day I went to work, he came over, this humble man, full of charm, love in his eyes, and kindness, and being so considerate and warm. I was so surprised,” she said.
Normally, it was Elvis who used his charm to chase after his co-stars, but according to his Memphis Mafia buddy Sonny West, this time the tables were turned. West shared, ”They were very close. She went after him. She wanted him bad.”
Did Elvis fall in love with Ursula Andress?
Rumors of a romance between Ursula and Elvis immediately began to swirl – and the King of Rock ‘n’ Roll was obviously very impressed by his gorgeous co-star.
According to people close to Elvis, though, “nothing happened” between the two actors. In fact, Elvis actually didn’t seem that impressed by Ursula’s looks.
You’d think Elvis would be into Ursula just because she dated James Dean, but maybe he had moved on from that. However, Alan Fortas, one of Elvis’ Memphis Mafia friends who knew him well, said Elvis was actually intrigued by her because of the James Dean connection.
Still, Elvis didn’t go after her, explaining that she was too broad-shouldered for his taste — definitely not the petite type he usually liked.
Elvis had a rule when it came to relationships
Maybe Elvis’ comments about Ursula’s broad shoulders were just a defense mechanism. There’s a good chance he was doing everything he could to avoid any romance with with the Swiss sex bomb, especially since he was hoping to reunite with his first love, Priscilla Presley.
In fact, Elvis was so nervous about Ursula’s charms that he made sure his entourage never left him alone with her. As his friend Alan Fortas teased him about a potential flirtation, Elvis quickly shot back, “No way, son, not with John Derek lurking all over the place. I’d be goddamned if I’d start a conversation with her and see his possessive eyes glaring at me. You know he gave her a car, and on the steering wheel it said, ‘Baby, you’re indispensable.’ Head over heels in love with her. Never saw anything like it.”
Elvis had a rule when it came to his relationships: he never went for married women. His Memphis Mafia friend Sonny West recalled, “Elvis told us never to leave him alone with her.” That rule definitely played a part in keeping things strictly professional between Elvis and Ursula, even if the sparks were flying.
What did Priscilla say?
In Pricilla Presley’s book, Elvis and Me, she recalled what Elvis had to say about Ursula and his feelings towards her. Priscilla said that Elvis thought Ursula had a ”body like a man” with no hips, and shoulders broader than his.
”I was embarrassed to take my goddam shirt off next to her,” Elvis said.
“I was surprised to hear how Elvis was talking about Ursula Andress, the alluring sex goddess of Dr. No. ‘Wasn’t she pretty?’ I asked. ‘Pretty?’ he snickered. ‘Hell, she had a bone structure so sharp, it could cut you in half if you turned too fast,’ Priscilla shared.
Wasn’t allowed to be too sexy
Even though Ursula Andress was the ultimate sex symbol as the first Bond girl in Dr. No, Fun in Acapulco toned things way down for Elvis’ young audience.
Ursula wasn’t thrilled about it either, saying, “They wouldn’t let me wear a real bikini and put a ruffled thing on me. They even stuck on a hair ribbon, stupidly thinking this would please the innocent little girls in Elvis’ audiences.”
Elvis Presley didn’t film in Acapulco
I had no idea Elvis never actually filmed Fun in Acapulco in Acapulco! Turns out, a stunt double (Raul Garcia) was used for all the location shots because Elvis wasn’t even allowed in Mexico. He had been declared persona non grata by the Mexican government, and by 1963, the rumor that he had insulted Mexico was still widely believed. Even Hollywood columnist Sheilah Graham reported it as fact, writing in December 1962, “Elvis Presley made some derogatory remarks about Mexican women in a fan mag article about two years ago. In Mexico, they are only just now getting around to forgiving him.”
But Elvis never actually said anything like that. The rumor was allegedly started by a politician who was upset that Elvis refused to perform a private concert for his daughter and her friends. That didn’t stop the backlash, though—Elvis had already been on Mexico’s bad side for years.
Back in 1957, Mexico’s Education Minister banned him from performing in any government-owned venue, claiming that his rock ’n’ roll style “lacks esthetic values and is markedly pornographic.” A month later, a Hollywood columnist reported, “Elvis Presley was offered $12,000 for one TV performance in Mexico City but had turned it down because he’s too busy making movies in Hollywood.”
With all the controversy surrounding him, filming in Mexico was never an option. Presley’s worldwide fame alone would have made it impossible to go unnoticed, but with the negative press he had received, working undercover in Mexico was completely out of the question.
Elvis shot all of his scenes at Paramount Studios in Hollywood, California.
Elvis was very uncomfortable in this outfit
According to the blog Deenas Days, Elvis wasn’t too thrilled about his outfit while filming the Marguerita song.
The scene itself is a classic, showcasing his incredible voice and reminding us why he’s considered one of the greatest vocalists ever. But there’s an interesting detail about his short-sleeved shirt that has since inspired many.
Elvis didn’t like the untucked, short-sleeved look, saying it wasn’t something he’d ever wear in real life. However, he had no choice — the outfit had already been worn by his double in an earlier shot.
That said, he did love most of his Latin-inspired costumes and even asked to keep his flamenco-style outfit (the navy blue and red cummerbund) along with two black silk shirts.
Elvis learns what a Margarita is… kind of.
Speaking of Marguerita, here’s a fun little detail that sharp-eyed viewers might have noticed! When Elvis Presley and Ursula Andress’s characters visit La Perla, they order two margaritas—but what they’re served looks nothing like the classic cocktail.
“Margarita, por favor,” Maggie orders, prompting Mike to cluelessly ask, “He’s asking your name?” She laughs and explains, “No, silly, a margarita is a drink made with tequila.” To which Mike, ever the charmer, replies, “Well, any drink named after you is good enough for me… two margaritas, please!”
For modern audiences, it’s hard to believe Mike wouldn’t know what a margarita is—but what’s even funnier is how the drink is portrayed in the scene. Instead of the familiar lime-infused cocktail, they’re handed what looks like straight tequila in coupe glasses, with a salted rim and a straw. Not quite the refreshing margarita we know today!
Cliff dives, trapeze tricks, and an awkward grab
Elvis Presley was all about putting on a show, but even he had his limits—especially when it came to a 136-foot cliff dive! While Fun in Acapulco made it seem like The King fearlessly leaped into the water, that daring stunt was actually performed by a professional. But that didn’t mean Elvis wasn’t up for some action. He was determined to do his own stunts, even swinging on the trapeze himself! Of course, they wisely saved that scene for the very last day of filming—just in case something went wrong.
One of the more amusing moments happened during the triumphant post-dive celebration. After his “victorious” jump, Elvis was hoisted onto the shoulders of cheering onlookers. But there was one small problem — one of the guys carrying him got a little too handsy. Elvis kept shifting uncomfortably, leading to multiple reshoots before the overenthusiastic grabber was quietly dismissed.
And here’s another fun little detail: Despite all the water action, Elvis’ hair somehow remained perfectly combed throughout. He dives in, he swims, he climbs out—and not a strand out of place. Now that’s movie magic!
Did you spot the familiar faces?
Three familiar faces from earlier Elvis movies make brief appearances in Fun in Acapulco. Darlene Tompkins, who plays one of the underage girls in a smoky Acapulco canteen, had previously been seen as Patsy, a teenage girl Elvis’ character guided around in Blue Hawaii.
Linda Rivera, who works at the hotel telegraph desk, had a small role as a squealing bobbysoxer in Loving You (1957). Howard McNear made his third appearance in an Elvis film.
And, of course, Teri Garr made her uncredited debut as an extra in Fun in Acapulco, eventually going on to appear in four more Elvis movies before launching her own acting career. Sadly, Teri passed away in 2024. The actress died of multiple sclerosis, a disease she had battled for over 20 years.
The truth behind the photo
Looking at behind-the-scenes photos of Elvis and Ursula from Fun in Acapulco is even more fascinating today, knowing what we do about their dynamic.
But one picture in particular caught my eye—not because it proves anything about the rumors of an affair, but for one simple reason: Who else but Elvis wears all black to the beach—long sleeves and long pants?! Only The King could make that look effortlessly cool under the Mexican sun!
The last cinematic hurrah
Fun in Acapulco was Elvis Presley’s last film release before the tidal wave of Beatlemania took over the world. The film’s lighthearted plot, Elvis’s charm, and catchy tunes offered a brief escape from the social shifts taking place.
But as the 1960s rolled on, the cultural landscape began to change. In a fun twist, The Beatles, fresh off their first American tour, made a point to visit a Florida drive-in theater to see Fun in Acapulco. It’s a fascinating snapshot of the changing entertainment scene.
If you’re a fan of both Elvis and The Beatles, this moment in time is a perfect example of how two iconic forces from different worlds were crossing paths, even if unknowingly. It’s also a reminder of the ever-evolving nature of pop culture. So, the next time you watch Fun in Acapulco, remember it wasn’t just another Elvis movie — it was the last cinematic hurrah before the world changed forever. Share your thoughts, and keep the conversation going!